The most obvious observation when observing a Solution Focused conversation is that the questions are central to this way of work. However, I think there is something even more central that is a bit harder to see but impacts all of the questions you ask in session. In this video I share this idea and explain how my thoughts in this area have evolved.
Thanks Elliott, I so very much agree with what you are saying in that the attitude that we have will be mirrored in our questions, persistence, and ability not to become distracted in session. If we don’t believe how is the client ever going to believe. (PS, it was difficult to hear what you were saying due to the wind creating interfering noise. Lovely setting but would have preferred without the noise.)thanks:)
Thanks for the comment Maria! Yes, the wind was an issue but being outside with Table Mountain in the background was too tempting. Thanks for bearing with me!