Elliott Connie
Founder/PresidentElliott Connie, MA, LPC is a Psychotherapist that practices in Arlington, Texas. He has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and families applying the solution...
When I was in graduate school, people would talk about Solution Focused Brief Therapy in very kind of general ways. I\’ve come to realize that some of the general ways that they talk about this approach we\’re kind of myths and inaccurate. And one of those is that Solution Focused Brief Therapy is a future focused approach, and we\’re not interested in history. Well, that\’s not true because history is where you show your strength and there\’s so much power in understanding your origin story. There\’s so much impact of understanding where you came from.
And I just went through the tour of George Washington\’s mansion here in Mount Vernon, just outside of the DC. And it was so interesting to see where the first president started and actually ended.
Where the American journey started and how this influential person spent his years on this planet. And it\’s very hard to understand, I\’ll say two things about history and why it\’s important. It\’s very hard to have a true understanding of where we\’re going, unless we\’ve had an understanding of where we\’ve been. And the other thing I\’ll say is the only way to truly understand your strength is to look in the past for your evidence of resources,
past successes, the talent, and the things that make you, you. Everybody\’s history is rich with stories and examples of your power and your strength showing up. And it\’s important to ask questions, to help people have those things to be highlighted in people\’s lives. I mean, this man led a life where 250 plus years, later, 275 years later,
whatever it is, people are still touring his home because his life was so rich with, with success. And so rich with strength and dominance. But you know what, so is everybody\’s. Everybody\’s life is that way. It\’s just, his was documented. And he did some things that had a ripple effect that have gone on for centuries, but everybody\’s powerful.
Everybody\’s strong. And to do therapy without acknowledging your clients, rich history of success would be a mistake. So don\’t fall for this narrative, that Solution Focused Brief Therapy is it approach about the future? That\’s not true because you can\’t really have a connected future without understanding where somebody has been.
When I was in graduate school, people would talk about Solution Focused Brief Therapy in very kind of general ways. I’ve come to realize that some of the general ways that they talk about this approach we’re kind of myths and inaccurate. And one of those is that Solution Focused Brief Therapy is a future focused approach, and we’re not interested in history. Well, that’s not true because history is where you show your strength and there’s so much power in understanding your origin story. There’s so much impact of understanding where you came from.
And I just went through the tour of George Washington’s mansion here in Mount Vernon, just outside of the DC. And it was so interesting to see where the first president started and actually ended.
Where the American journey started and how this influential person spent his years on this planet. And it’s very hard to understand, I’ll say two things about history and why it’s important. It’s very hard to have a true understanding of where we’re going, unless we’ve had an understanding of where we’ve been. And the other thing I’ll say is the only way to truly understand your strength is to look in the past for your evidence of resources,
past successes, the talent, and the things that make you, you. Everybody’s history is rich with stories and examples of your power and your strength showing up. And it’s important to ask questions, to help people have those things to be highlighted in people’s lives. I mean, this man led a life where 250 plus years, later, 275 years later,
whatever it is, people are still touring his home because his life was so rich with, with success. And so rich with strength and dominance. But you know what, so is everybody’s. Everybody’s life is that way. It’s just, his was documented. And he did some things that had a ripple effect that have gone on for centuries, but everybody’s powerful.
Everybody’s strong. And to do therapy without acknowledging your clients, rich history of success would be a mistake. So don’t fall for this narrative, that Solution Focused Brief Therapy is it approach about the future? That’s not true because you can’t really have a connected future without understanding where somebody has been.
Elliott Connie, MA, LPC is a Psychotherapist that practices in Arlington, Texas. He has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and families applying the solution focused approach to help them move their lives from the current problems towards their desired futures. As well as being the Founder and President of The Solution Focused Universe, he is recognized around the world speaking at national and international conferences and events throughout the United States, Australia, New Zealand, Germany, South Africa, Russia, Switzerland, England, Poland, Sweden, Denmark, Scotland, Holland, Canada, and Asia training practitioners to apply solution focused questions and techniques in their work. He has authored or co-authored 4 books including “The Art of Solution Focused Therapy”, ‘Solution Building in Couples Therapy”, ‘The Solution Focused Marriage’, and ‘Solution-Focused Brief Therapy with Clients Managing Trauma’.
